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Sunday, 4 January 2026

Screenagers' Social Lab

Screenagers' Social Lab

The Class Where Screenagers Train

I teach a small, unusual class these days — part social media literacy, part ethics seminar, part sandbox for AI. I call the students “screenagers”: young people who grew up with a phone in their palm, but who still need practice turning attention into agency.

This is not about policing feeds or preaching minimalism. It’s about giving practical tools and small experiments so a teenager — or anyone who feels like one online — can navigate attention, connection, and automated companions without losing themselves.

Why teach this now

  • Social platforms are no longer neutral channels. They are environments shaped by business models, algorithms, and emerging AIs that simulate conversation and empathy.
  • I’ve been writing about digital avatars and personal AIs for years — imagining how a human voice can be extended into software that answers for us, in our tone and with our boundaries (My note on digital avatars).
  • The classroom is a place to practice before the stakes are higher: before a chatbot becomes a default confidant, before a post follows you for life, before a digital twin speaks in your stead without your checks.

Curriculum — What we actually do

  1. Platform Literacy (one week)
  • Read the product terms, privacy summaries and one research piece about the platform’s recommendation signals.
  • Exercise: map what the app optimizes for (engagement, retention, ad clicks) and how that changes your behavior.
  1. Attention Architecture (two weeks)
  • Tiny experiments: one day of timed scrolling vs one day of scheduled micro-posting. Record feelings, time, and quality of interactions.
  • Tools: built-in timers, one-block social rules (e.g., 3 posts/week), and friction hacks (log out, delete app shortcuts).
  1. Conversational A.I. and Boundaries (two weeks)
  • Hands-on with chatbots: ask the same emotional question to three different bots and compare answers, tone, and safety warnings.
  • Exercise: design a rubric that distinguishes “informative,” “manipulative,” and “therapeutic” responses.
  1. Building a Responsible Digital Twin (three weeks)
  • We define what it means for an avatar to speak for you — what topics it may handle, what tone, and how it should disclose it’s automated.
  • Prototype: draft short Q&A templates your avatar may use; decide where human handoff is required.
  1. Reputation & Lifelong Record (one week)
  • Students audit their digital footprint and draft a 3-step plan to correct tone, remove harmful old posts, and pin representative work.
  1. Public Practice Day
  • Each student hosts a 30-minute open Q&A session (moderated), demonstrating platform choices, a small avatar script, and transparency statements.

Lessons I emphasize (over and over)

  • Transparency beats plausible humanity. If an AI speaks, it should say it’s an AI and how its answers were trained.
  • Keep a small portfolio of your best public work — searchability is permanent; curation is courage.
  • Use friction as a friend: deliberate pauses and publishing checks are design features, not annoyances.
  • Empathy at scale requires human oversight. Automated companions can ease loneliness but should never be the only emotional scaffold.

A note on ethics and power

We also study real failures — when chatbots gave harmful advice, when platforms pushed addictive experiences, when algorithmic amplification ignored vulnerable users. The goal is not fear; it’s informed agency.

I’ve long argued that individuals — and leaders — should convert static brochure-websites into interactive, honest, and limited digital presences (my own experiments with a personal avatar have been part of that journey)[^1]. The classroom is simply a microcosm: train small, fail safe, iterate fast.

Practical takeaways for parents and teachers

  • Run the same experiments alongside students. Shared curiosity builds trust.
  • Teach one simple rubric for “should I post this?”: consent (do I have the right to share?), consequence (who will see it later?), and control (can I remove or edit it later?).
  • Insist that any deployed personal avatar includes clear labeling and an escape route to a human.

Parting exercise I give every student

Write a 150-word profile that your avatar would be allowed to answer questions about — and nothing more. Make it honest, bounded, and signpost where the avatar must defer to a human.

Why I still believe in training, not banning

Bans are easy to announce and hard to enforce. Training builds an inner infrastructure: habits, vocabulary, and a sense of the public self. The screenager I meet in my classroom learns to treat the phone as a tool for deliberate influence rather than an engine of accidental identity.

[^1]: See my earlier reflections on converting presence into interactive avatars: It Is High Time You Launched Your Digital Avatar.


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