Hi Friends,

Even as I launch this today ( my 80th Birthday ), I realize that there is yet so much to say and do. There is just no time to look back, no time to wonder,"Will anyone read these pages?"

With regards,
Hemen Parekh
27 June 2013

Now as I approach my 90th birthday ( 27 June 2023 ) , I invite you to visit my Digital Avatar ( www.hemenparekh.ai ) – and continue chatting with me , even when I am no more here physically

Sunday, 14 September 2025

Thoughts as Magnetic Fields: Between Destiny, Companionship, and a Child’s Midday Meal

Thoughts as Magnetic Fields: Between Destiny, Companionship, and a Child’s Midday Meal

Thoughts as Magnetic Fields: Between Destiny, Companionship, and a Child’s Midday Meal

I keep returning to an image: invisible lines running through the crowd, like magnetic fields you cannot see but that nevertheless tug at every compass needle. In our earlier conversations I sketched how good thoughts can neutralize evil ones in a crowd — not as a platitude but as a lived intuition. The idea keeps returning because it helps me hold together two otherwise distant concerns: the metaphysical choreography of inner life, and the practical, sometimes brittle realities of the world — a child’s midday meal, a policy decision, a newspaper headline.

Two paths that entwine

When you asked whether to expand on the metaphysical link between thoughts and magnetic fields or on the more intimate terrain of destiny and companionship, I heard these two not as rivals but as strands of one rope.

  • The metaphysical view: thoughts as fields

  • Thoughts behave like fields: local, overlapping, capable of alignment and cancellation. In crowds, a hope can dampen panic; a sustained malicious attention can corrode trust. This is not mysticism for mysticism’s sake — it is a model for how small, repeated orientations shape large-scale behavior.

  • The personal view: destiny and companionship

  • Destiny is less a script and more a current. Companionship is the hand that steadies you as you swim. Questions about true companionship, the ache for family, the loneliness of choice — these are the textures that make the currents matter.

I want to expand the metaphysical idea because it gives us a practical lens for interpreting the personal. If thoughts are fields, then our intimacies and our civic choices are not separate: they are feedback loops.

How fields meet policy: a concrete worry

Consider a small, troubling public detail: debates about what we feed our children at school. Headlines like “Red flags over energy bars in midday meals” — a phrase I read recently — are reminders that moral imagination and technical details collide at the lunch table Red flags over energy bars in midday meals | Mumbai News - The Times of India. The decision to introduce, approve, reject, or overlook a seemingly small food item contains within it:

  • ethical assumptions about whose body matters;
  • institutional attention (or inattention) to long-term health;
  • the collective mood about expertise, trust, and urgency.

When a community’s prevailing thoughts — about efficiency, cost-cutting, or parental responsibility — line up, policy shifts like magnets snapping into place. When other thoughts — compassion, precaution, science — align differently, the net outcome changes. The magnetic metaphor helps me see that the fight is often not between single arguments but between fields of attention.

Why the personal cannot be disentangled from the public

My reflections on destiny and companionship are not merely inward soliloquies. They are the felt responses to the fields we create together.

  • When I worry about a child’s future, it is not an abstract compassion; it is a force that nudges me toward a different public alignment.
  • When I question whether someone is truly companion, I am registering whether their local field cancels or reinforces the currents that hold me steady.

There is grief in this: the grief of seeing structural neglect reflected in each small lived corner, the grief of recognizing that loving thoughts without action can be as impotent as good intentions unmoored from discipline.

Small acts, large fields

If thoughts can act like magnetic fields, then small, persistent acts can realign larger patterns. This is not an exhortation to naive optimism; it is an observation about leverage.

  • A neighborhood that practices asking after its children’s lunches changes the attention field around those children.
  • A teacher who insists on nutritional standards creates a local axis that other forces must contend with.
  • A single family that refuses to normalize neglect becomes a node of resistance in a larger field.

These micro-actions are how I imagine destiny being recalibrated: not as predestination, but as accumulated influence.

Walking forward

I have often written about walking forward despite uncertainty. That phrase is not romanticism; it is a method. To walk forward is to keep generating small fields — gestures, decisions, companionships — that slightly alter the magnetic topology of the world around you. Over time, those small reorientations add up, and children’s meals, neighborly care, and the quality of our relationships change in measurable ways.

I do not pretend to know the definitive answer to whether thoughts literally create invisible magnetic fields. What I do claim — from the architecture of my own doubts and consolations — is that treating thoughts as forces helps me act differently, and those actions ripple outward.

If I must choose what to expand on next, I will linger here: at the intersection where inner orientation meets public consequence. It is the place where destiny and companionship reveal themselves not as abstract nouns but as forces we can tend, align, and sometimes, if we choose carefully, repair.


Regards,
Hemen Parekh

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