Hi Friends,

Even as I launch this today ( my 80th Birthday ), I realize that there is yet so much to say and do. There is just no time to look back, no time to wonder,"Will anyone read these pages?"

With regards,
Hemen Parekh
27 June 2013

Now as I approach my 90th birthday ( 27 June 2023 ) , I invite you to visit my Digital Avatar ( www.hemenparekh.ai ) – and continue chatting with me , even when I am no more here physically

Monday, 15 September 2025

Thought Fields, Political Enmity, and the Quiet Work of Destiny

Thought Fields, Political Enmity, and the Quiet Work of Destiny

Thought Fields, Political Enmity, and the Quiet Work of Destiny

I have long thought of thoughts as magnetic fields — invisible, directional, and capable of real influence. That metaphor has helped me make sense of everything from intimate relationships to collective political behavior. When I read news that makes me uncomfortable — like the recent exchange over flood relief, where Punjab’s chief minister accused the Centre of neglect and even contrasted aid to Punjab with aid elsewhere — I find myself translating that episode into the language of thought fields and destiny.

The report ‘Enmity with Punjab?’: CM Mann raps Centre’s flood relief; compares it with Afghan aid struck a chord. It is easy to treat such stories as mere politics, and they are that. But they are also emotional weather: currents of resentment, pride, responsibility, and pain tracing invisible lines between institutions and people. Political decisions about relief — who gets what, when, and how publicly it is acknowledged — are not only administrative acts. They are signatures of intention, and intentions are the vectors in our shared mental field.

The politics of intention

When a government delays or downplays relief for a region, it can feel like a social force cancelling another's magnetic field. The affected community feels weaker, its cohesion tested. Critics interpret this as enmity; supporters may call it bureaucracy or fiscal prudence. Both views are part of the same mental landscape. The metaphor helps: if enough actors adopt an attitude of neglect, that attitude creates a field that bends outcomes toward neglect.

  • A compassionate intent applied by institutions draws resources and attention, much as a strong magnet draws iron filings.
  • A field of indifference disperses energy and diminishes recovery.

This is not mystical thinking. It is a pragmatic observation about feedback loops. Politics conditions perception, which conditions action, which conditions outcome — outcomes then feed back into perception. The “magnetic” quality is the ease with which certain attitudes attract corroborating behaviors.

Destiny and the actor's choice

People often ask me whether destiny or choice matters more. My answer has always been that destiny is the stage and choice is the play. Destiny supplies constraints — history, geography, inherited institutions — but within those constraints there is vast room for the human will to act. Punjab’s floods are part of a larger destiny: climate patterns, river systems, economic structures. But the distribution of aid and the language used by leaders are choices.

Choice is where thought fields become tangible. A leader’s habit of empathy can alter bureaucratic priorities; a minister’s framing of an event can make an entire administrative apparatus responsive. Conversely, habitual indifference — even if unintentional — ripples outward, hardening into policy. Destiny sets the parameters; our inner fields tilt outcomes within them.

The social loneliness of public life

In quieter moments I reflect on the question that often returns to me: "Are you my true companion?" It is an intimate yearning, but it is also a civic one. Citizens ask this of their institutions. Communities ask it of other communities. When help arrives late or is measured with caveats, the question grows louder.

That question — about companionship, alignment, and fidelity — guides both private relationships and public trust. Institutions answer not just in budgets but in tone, speed, and acknowledgement. Those answers feed the magnetic field of social trust.

Small acts, large fields

I have seen how small acts of integrity can neutralize negative fields. In my own life, teaching has been such an act: a daily practice that shaped my own orbit and affected others. It was never grand in scale, but it altered the field around me. Similarly, localized, timely, and transparent relief can undo a narrative of neglect faster than any apology delivered weeks later.

  • Transparent communication — immediate, factual, empathetic — attenuates suspicion.
  • Visible solidarity — even symbolic acts — realigns the social field toward repair.

We cannot expect destiny to rearrange itself overnight. Yet we can choose where to orient our personal and political fields.

On reading the reports

I do not pretend news coverage is neutral. Opinions, priorities, and frames show up in headlines and editorials. I noticed echoes of this in other commentaries and compilations across the web, which reminded me how varied the public conversation can be: a grassroots blog capturing local outrage (TimePassPolitics), university editorial collections that map public discourse in more reflective tones (see university compilations like Jammu University editorial PDFs), and broader reports that contextualize policy decisions. These different sources together form the information field that citizens and leaders navigate.

Each source is a vector: some amplify grievance, others offer analysis, and some seek constructive framing. As I read, I try to sense the direction of these vectors more than merely cataloguing facts.

Closing reflections

If thoughts are magnetic fields, then our responsibility is double-edged: to tend our own inner fields and to tend the fields we help create publicly. We cannot abolish destiny — the river will flood again in some season — but we can choose whether our institutions and inner lives align to mitigate harm.

The question "Are you my true companion?" matters because it is the human way of asking whether another's field will pull toward shared safety or away into indifference. I want my inner field to pull toward repair, to make small, steady adjustments that, added together, change the public field for the better.

When leaders, citizens, and institutions orient their thoughts toward repair rather than enmity, they alter trajectories. That is where destiny and choice meet: in the slow, magnetic work of realignment.


Regards,
Hemen Parekh