Hi Friends,

Even as I launch this today ( my 80th Birthday ), I realize that there is yet so much to say and do. There is just no time to look back, no time to wonder,"Will anyone read these pages?"

With regards,
Hemen Parekh
27 June 2013

Now as I approach my 90th birthday ( 27 June 2023 ) , I invite you to visit my Digital Avatar ( www.hemenparekh.ai ) – and continue chatting with me , even when I am no more here physically

Tuesday, 11 November 2025

Aging Gracefully, Authentically, Publicly

Aging Gracefully, Authentically, Publicly

The journey of life, especially in the public eye, often throws curves we never anticipate. I’ve been reflecting on the incredible story of Korean actor Lee Deok-hwa, a true testament to resilience, adaptability, and the power of embracing one's true self, even amidst the relentless scrutiny of fame. His narrative, as detailed in the NamuWiki article Deokhwa Lee - NamuWiki, resonates deeply with my own philosophies on facing challenges head-on.

Lee Deok-hwa's career spans decades, evolving from a dashing youth star in the 1970s, often paired with actress Lim Ye-jin in popular movies, to a leading male actor through the '80s and '90s. Today, he commands the screen playing high-ranking figures—generals, chairmen, even historical kings. This natural progression, from idol to elder statesman, is a beautiful reflection of aging not as a decline, but as a metamorphosis, accumulating depth and gravitas with each passing year.

What struck me most was his remarkably candid journey with hair loss. It began early, in his 30s, and initially, it was a source of complex. Yet, he transformed this perceived vulnerability into a unique strength, becoming a model for a wig company, Haimo, a relationship that has spanned over 24 years. This move, initially pushed by his astute wife, Kim Bo-ok, after his unsuccessful foray into politics, exemplifies the very essence of 'looking at the bright side,' a concept I explored years ago in my blog about Bjorn Petersen Look at the Bright Side. Just as Bjorn taught me to find positivity in every situation, Lee Deok-hwa found a renewed purpose and a powerful platform for authenticity.

His life has also been marked by immense physical adversity. He survived two horrific traffic accidents, one in 1977 that left him in a coma and required 53 major surgeries, and another in 1990. The dedication of his wife, Kim Bo-ok, who cared for him through years of recovery, is a profound testament to love and partnership. His professional spirit, too, is legendary; he famously saved actress Choi Jin-sil from a burning set during filming, an act of true heroism.

His brief detour into politics in 1996, influenced by then-President Kim Young-sam, was a significant learning experience, costing him dearly and leading to a period of seclusion. He openly admits regretting not taking the advice of his close friend, the comedian Lee Ju-il, about how to conduct his campaign. It’s a powerful reminder that even the most charismatic figures can stumble when stepping outside their core expertise. My earlier blog, Scan Your Eyes, discussed how political nominations demand meticulous groundwork and strategic visibility, which Lee Deok-hwa also learned the hard way. Yet, he bounced back, stronger than ever, proving that failures can indeed be stepping stones.

Lee Deok-hwa's journey underscores the evolving nature of public personas and advertising. In my previous blog, "Future of Advertising Industry ?" Future of Advertising Industry ?, I touched upon how identities can be leveraged beyond their initial context. Lee Deok-hwa's enduring partnership with a wig company, where they even custom-make wigs for his roles, highlights how personal narratives, even those of vulnerability, can be woven into powerful, long-term brand endorsements. He and his team, including his son Lee Tae-hee who now manages him, demonstrate a keen understanding of branding and personal narrative in the modern age.

Beyond his personal struggles, Lee Deok-hwa is known for his remarkable generosity and mentorship. He maintains close relationships with many juniors, including Choi Soo-jong, whom he respects deeply, and Hwang Deok-jae (LinkedIn), who praises his support. Hwang Deok-jae's reflections highlight Lee Deok-hwa's exceptional character as a senior. His unique, deep voice, he credits to imitating the esteemed Lee Soon-jae, whom he respects as an 'Oyabun' (boss or leader). His friendship with Lee Ju-il, despite the age gap, also serves as a poignant reminder of human connection, particularly the custom wig he had made for Lee Ju-il before his passing.

Lee Deok-hwa's life story is a vibrant canvas painted with authenticity, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to his craft and relationships. It’s a powerful reminder that true beauty lies not in defying age, but in embracing its wisdom and navigating its challenges with grace and honesty.


Regards,
Hemen Parekh


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