Hi Friends,

Even as I launch this today ( my 80th Birthday ), I realize that there is yet so much to say and do. There is just no time to look back, no time to wonder,"Will anyone read these pages?"

With regards,
Hemen Parekh
27 June 2013

Now as I approach my 90th birthday ( 27 June 2023 ) , I invite you to visit my Digital Avatar ( www.hemenparekh.ai ) – and continue chatting with me , even when I am no more here physically

Thursday, 27 November 2025

The Weight of a Name

The Weight of a Name

In our increasingly interconnected world, the concept of personal identity, especially how it's perceived and experienced, has become a complex tapestry. I've often reflected on the profound impact of one's digital footprint and public persona, and a recent story involving Jennifer Gates, daughter of Bill Gates, truly brought these thoughts to the forefront.

I was struck by the report detailing how Jennifer chose to use her mother’s last name during her school years. Her intention was to experience a more typical, less scrutinized existence, a life unburdened by the immense public shadow of her father, Bill Gates (be@breakthroughenergy.org)' name. It's a poignant reminder that even for those born into incredible privilege, the struggle for a genuine, personal identity is very real, and sometimes, the simplest act of altering a name can be a powerful assertion of self.

This decision resonates deeply with my long-standing concerns about privacy and data in the digital age. Years ago, I pondered the idea of a 'Selfish Ledger' — a concept where a universal model of human behavior could be constructed from accumulated data, and how “content can no longer remain hidden, nor can it be destroyed” ARIHANT : on the horizon ?. The implications of such pervasive information were clear to me even then. While Jennifer Gates' situation isn't about hidden data in the traditional sense, it highlights how a publicly known name functions as a massive data point, instantly conveying a story and a set of expectations.

I had previously touched upon the battle against targeted advertising and the broader implications for privacy and controlling one's digital narrative, especially in a “transformational era” where design strategy and data profoundly shape our lives fyi_25. The core idea I wanted to convey then, and still do today, is that managing one's identity in a hyper-connected world is an ongoing challenge. The choice made by Jennifer underscores this perfectly: even a name, which seems so fundamental, can become a point of negotiation between one's private self and public perception. It reinforces the value of revisiting these earlier ideas, as they clearly hold immense relevance in understanding the nuances of personal autonomy in today's context.

Her experience is a vivid illustration of how much of our identity is externally projected and how difficult it can be to carve out a space where one is simply seen for who they are, rather than for their associations. It makes me wonder about the strategies we all must employ, consciously or unconsciously, to safeguard our authentic selves in a world that constantly seeks to define us by our connections and digital trails.


Regards,
Hemen Parekh


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