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Thursday, 12 March 2026

When Borders Break

When Borders Break

When Borders Break

I watched the reports come in with that hollow, familiar feeling — headlines that read like they could have been written years ago: Pakistan struck again inside Afghanistan; homes in Kabul were hit; four people were killed.

This is not just a military incident. It's a human story that repeats: families awakened by explosions, rooms turned into rubble, the long aftermath of grief and displacement. The immediate facts reported by multiple outlets are stark: airstrikes attributed to Pakistani forces hit areas near and in Kabul and eastern provinces, and Afghan authorities reported civilian casualties and damage to residential areas and homes NDTV. These incidents sit on top of a broader pattern of cross-border strikes and skirmishes that have flared repeatedly over the past few years Wikipedia — Afghanistan–Pakistan clashes.

My immediate reaction

I find myself cycling between two responses: sorrow for the victims, and frustration at the structural failures that allow these tragedies to recur. Sorrow because each number in a casualty list is a person with an ordinary life — children, elders, neighbors. Frustration because diplomacy, mediation and safeguards for civilians often lag behind the speed of weapons and rhetoric.

There is also a familiar logic that governments and militaries invoke: cross-border militancy is intolerable; sanctuaries must be denied; national security demands action. But security calculus that treats populated neighborhoods as permissible theatre for strikes is bound to produce civilian harm and fuel new cycles of radicalization and revenge.

Why this keeps happening

  • The porous nature of the border and the intermixing of communities make clean military options rare.
  • Multiple non-state armed groups operate across and within borders; attribution is complex and contested.
  • Trust between the two states is low; negotiation channels have been frayed and ceasefires remain fragile.
  • External mediators, when they engage, often find themselves arbitrating a conflict rooted in local grievances and long-standing suspicion.

This is not new. I have written before about how regional conflicts attract external strategic interests and how those interests can prolong suffering rather than resolve it A Syria at Our Doorsteps. The metaphor holds: once foreign policy becomes transactional and short-term, ordinary people pay the price.

The human cost and the moral question

Four reported dead in this particular incident is a number that could rise once independent investigations and reporting reach the scene. Even a single civilian death in a strike on a residential area is a moral failure of the frameworks we use to wage and contain violence.

We must ask: are our strategies achieving lasting security? Or are they creating the conditions for the next outraged episode — an attack, a reprisal, another strike? Without accountability and civilian protections, military solutions become self-perpetuating.

What I hope to see next

I don't offer easy answers. But there are pragmatic steps the international community and the parties themselves could and should pursue:

  • An immediate pause in offensive operations affecting population centers and an urgent, independent investigation into civilian harm.
  • Humanitarian corridors and rapid aid for displaced families; protection for civilians must be prioritized above tactical gains.
  • Revived diplomatic channels with credible mediators — neutral actors who can ensure commitments are monitored and violations addressed — and a clear, timebound roadmap to de-escalation.
  • Confidence-building measures at the local level: shared mechanisms to report and investigate cross-border incidents, and to address the grievances that create fertile ground for militancy.

On responsibilities and the long view

Those who order and those who execute strikes carry responsibilities that extend beyond immediate tactical success. So do those who host or tolerate non-state armed groups that attack across borders. The ethical frame should be simple: sovereignty and security cannot be secured by repeating harm against civilians.

I am drawn back to an old habit of mine: urging pragmatic, sometimes unpopular ideas — third-party mediation, robust monitoring, and above all, asking leaders to think past the next headline. The suffering is too close to normal now. If we are to break this cycle, we must make civilian protection and truthful accountability the measure of progress, not the collateral cost to be accepted in the name of expediency.


Regards,
Hemen Parekh


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